Comments on: Heart Break

By: afua

afua — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 18:10:50 +0000

I understand how you feel, i was in a relationship for 3 years that i don’t bellieve God had ordained at the time. It didn’t work out for whatever reason, and he married someone else..I was hurt, but I broke it off and was giving him my heart and NEVeR even asked GOD about it. Be careful not to idolize this person, marriage is the purpose for relationships and if he is not focused on you, you don’t need him.God is the creator of marriage, He will lead your husband to you. pray. You want someone who loves you and will treat you right.The way Jesus wants you to be treated. Marriage, sex and children are wonderful gifts but not everything in life. Don’t let the enemy trick you, sometimes it’s just when you can’t have something that you want it. But when you get it, it’s not all that. Be balanced, get a hobby and cultivate interests on YOUR OWN, and you’ll feel the feelings fall off. If you aren’t married to someone, those passionate feelings you have should not be awoke. Remember God gave you those feellings to be in a COMMITTED marriage relationship with someone who won’t break your heart and you can have children. Try to remember God sees your heart, but give Him your heart ALONE, until HE tells you to give it to someone worthy. I will pray for you.

By: HP

HP — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 10:39:12 +0000

dear heart break.
i’ve been there. i know what you’re going through. i dated a guy for 7 years.he cheated on me and got married to the same lady 2 years after our relationship. to top it all-they got married on the date that we started dating! i though that there was no life without him, ’cause he was my world.my job second and God 3rd.in the same year i lost both my boyfriend and my job. now that God is 1st in my life-i could not have asked for a better life! you will get over him. pray for him and pray the prayer of jabez over your life. god will never leave you and He is a healer,friend,companion,etc. everything that your ex meant to you God is all of that and more. Trust HIM!

By: Cathy

Cathy — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 15:13:59 +0000

Oh my dear sister in Christ I feel your pain. I carry the burden with you and I understand. I, too, dated a younger man and the pain of the break is impossible. But you have to remember that God promises to be close to the broken hearted. You are doing the right thing, you are grieving and trying to move on. God will dry your tears, I know He will, you just have to hang on to Him and joy comes in the morning. Hold on to Him with everything you are, read scripture, talk to friends, and cry. One day, my friend, your tears will stop, I promise.

If you need a friend, or someone to pray with, please don’t hesitate to email me: cvirecci@gmail.com. God has plans to prosper you! Remember this:) He is a GOOD God and will not let you go! You are not alone in this walk, He will carry you to the other side of the pain. Trust Him. Bless you, my prayers are for you!!!!

By: Christopher Johnson

Christopher Johnson — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 05:17:40 +0000

well all i can say is im 18 starting college and had my first girlfriend, and i had to breadk up with her not even a month ago. I just cryed my eyes out asking God to help me. This is a long story of what ive now seen as manpulation and taking the truth and turning into lies. I knw God has so much for me but i cnt get mad at her. She almost tore me from my family, church and friends. And didnt care, well thats not what she said but did. I wnt the pain to leave but the memories and the love is still there. Why? can anyone help me? Am i the bad one? ive never known a boy my age to be this way after a break up, i dont knw i cnt find much about this kinda stuff on the web its mostly about how the guy trashed the girls heart and left..but thats not me…im not that way…can someone help me?

By: jenny allio

jenny allio — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 05:51:54 +0000

This loss of love is a wonderful test and opportunity for you to have that much love and so much more for Christ that you will get to the point that you will be so glad that relationship did not continue because it was a distraction to what Jesus wants us all to have in Him. Dive more and more into His word.Spend more and more time with the Lord.He is the one you will spend eternity with!!!

By: H

Tue, 05 May 2009 13:19:00 +0000

Well it has been twenty years since I lost my man and I still have the odd cry. I still go to counselling occasionally that has taught me lots of things-how to write letters to him and burn them, art therapy, music therapy, pamper therapy (get a massage/spa etc), do activities I enjoy, prayer journals… I have done lots of Christian courses and been through a lot of prayer ministry and you know what? I still love and miss him every day, but I have a wonderful life anyway. The grief does not paralyse me anymore, I have learnt heaps and I use it to help others.

By: Kathrine

Kathrine — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 01:57:41 +0000

you can move on. All you need is more faith and determination to moveon. I know how you feel, I’ve wasted two years for a man not meant for me. I thought my world would end, had suicide attempts and the like… but right now, believe it or not, I dont love him anymore. I’m even thankful we’re through.

You know what my prayer was? i just prayed that God would take the love i feel for him so i wouldnt expect, feel hurt even when he’s with somebody else. i prayed that when I realized I already wasted a year trying to chase him and as a result, he just moves away. So I left everything in God’s hands. Even when that new prayer I made were the most hardest words to say. I thought I couldn’t move on, I thought I wouldn’t last a year not having him back….BUT RIGHT NOW, I AM HAPPY. Because God helped me move on. He open my eyes everyday, send people to teach me things about life… and you’ll see, God will open your eyes and free you and you will never notice it until you realize it out of nowhere. Have faith. my ex and I had a 3 yr relationship… and to tell you, I know it’s hard. Believe, and be determined to move on. I advice you to stay out of his way for awhile until you’re over him…

By: Keith

Keith — Sun, 12 Apr 2009 02:28:41 +0000

unless God meant for it to be, then move on..I know that sounds cruel,but I Don’t mean for it to be..but me.I made the worse mistake of Turning away from GOD for over 30 plus years and just either letting women break my heart,when I REALITY they were not the right kind of women anyway..they where ones you meet in bars or through internet rather then the right place ,which is through Church and/or through GOD bringing them to you..
Of course some I met other places but I had no girlfriend for more than 3 months that I Remember anyhow.and most where sexual rather than SPIRITUALLY LED AND GOD DOES NOT LIKE PRE-MARITAL SEX..I knew it even though I was backslid in the back of my mind…why I got backslid doesn’t matter but I did and now that I got back with GOD..Women shouldn’t matter at all the problem is …Satan can and will use your biggest weakness..I mean I QUIT LOTTERY,ROCK N ROLL ,BARS ,CIGARETTES AND Other major sinful things to get back and try HARD TO serve GOD WITH HEART SOUL AND MIND..getting saved..when I WAS VERY YOUNG..But I had car wrecks..which when I lived in the world made me think maybe I NEVER WAS SAVED So I RECENTLY Asked GOD AGAIN TO MAKE SURE TO forgive this SINNER THAT I AM.AND DEVELOP IN ME A NEW HEART..I Wish you the best ,but remember GOD DOES COME FIRST, NOT Love romantic or otherwise,not family,not jobs,not money not sports,not hobbies..in fact ANYTHING YOU PUT BEFORE GOD IS AN IDOL..SO let GOD TAKE CONTROL..HIM AND HIM ALONE..
GOOD LUCK

By: Jamall

Jamall — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 01:16:43 +0000

I’m available. No seriously, I am email me at jamallw@hotmail.com. and lets talk. I believe that God says the same thing. I am available. I am here for you just reach out to me. That is so good that you loved him. That means that when you find your next love you’ll love him more. Isn’t that increadible. The love of God goes deeper and deeper. I’m 32. Close to your age. But I’ve been where you are at. And you just have to move on. There is nothing else that will soothe your heart expect moving on. Allow God to heal you. You loved him for a reason. But God is saying move on. Pray and ask God to help you move on. If you don’t you’ll be stuck for life loving a man that dosen’t love you back. Just look at that for a moment. You want someone who is going to appreciate you and tell you nice things about yourself, not someone who is telling this to some other woman. Love is fun isn’t it. I’m glad that I loved a woman and she didn’t love me back. At the time it hurts but sister let me tell you, with God you get over it and you move on. And soon you’ll be happy for him that he found another women. This is the reality. He’s going to be with someone else unless God changes him, but even in that why wait for something that is not your when God is yours and he’s telling you, look I have something else for you, I’m just waiting for you to come to me and try it. DOn’t let Satan get a foothold in your emotions and life and get you hung up on this fellow. Stay with Jesus don’t let this get you down. email me. Peace.

By: Arun

Arun — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 01:41:23 +0000

Pray, prayer has a lot of power. When Jesus said ask whatsoever you want in my name and I will have it given to you, He was serious. He is God and created of whatever is seen and unseen. He doesn’t have to lie or fake like us. He is our almighty God, so trust in him and pray persistently ask what you want and believe, you will get it.

I am in a similar situation and I have been praying for more than a year now, sometimes I feel hopeless but everytime deep down i my heart something tells me God will bring my Love back, so like the Canaanite woman I am persistent. I refuse to give up and I am holding on to Jesus.

All this while Jesus never let that love in me to die or even diminish. I believe it His is will else he would have let me know about it, He would have brought me out of it. This is why I believe it His is will and gives me the strength to go on.

I believe God has his timings and that is perfect, at the moment it might look like it is perfect, but when it happens you will know that He planned it and He cared for you.

Trusting in Jesus always