Comments on: Heart Break http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/ Read and share Christian testimonies Sat, 04 Feb 2012 20:48:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: DavidC http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-10804 DavidC Wed, 24 Nov 2010 22:54:10 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-10804 Letting him go means accepting that he may not be God's choice for you. If he is, God WILL bring him back but ONLY when you let go. Not that God can't but that you won't let him. Yes, we DO hinder God's will. Thus the reason we must die to ourselves meaning we give up our wills and trust that his will is sufficient. But letting go will only release your heart from the pain and make you ripe for your soul mate whoever that may be. It may not be the other guy. What I say is true. I once suffered the very same feelings you did and for a long time as yourself. This had eventually plunged me into serious chronic insomnia (a killer). Furthermore, God once showed me personally that if I, or anyone else, wanted to find their soulmate, I would have to learn to be satisfied with God alone. I would have to stop wishing, stop looking here and there, and just give up this 'search' for a soulmate. Once I looked away and up at him, and found satisfaction with him alone, it was then that He surprised me with my soulmate. It is vitally important for our hearts to be ready for this. You have to believe me. I had come to a point where I 'felt' I was called to be single for years to come and thats when God surprised me. You have nothing to lose but everything to gain by doing this. So give up your will and wishes and desires. And the LORD, who is real, will take care of this. Letting him go means accepting that he may not be God’s choice for you. If he is, God WILL bring him back but ONLY when you let go. Not that God can’t but that you won’t let him. Yes, we DO hinder God’s will. Thus the reason we must die to ourselves meaning we give up our wills and trust that his will is sufficient. But letting go will only release your heart from the pain and make you ripe for your soul mate whoever that may be. It may not be the other guy.

What I say is true. I once suffered the very same feelings you did and for a long time as yourself. This had eventually plunged me into serious chronic insomnia (a killer).
Furthermore, God once showed me personally that if I, or anyone else, wanted to find their soulmate, I would have to learn to be satisfied with God alone. I would have to stop wishing, stop looking here and there, and just give up this ‘search’ for a soulmate. Once I looked away and up at him, and found satisfaction with him alone, it was then that He surprised me with my soulmate.

It is vitally important for our hearts to be ready for this. You have to believe me. I had come to a point where I ‘felt’ I was called to be single for years to come and thats when God surprised me.

You have nothing to lose but everything to gain by doing this. So give up your will and wishes and desires. And the LORD, who is real, will take care of this.

]]> By: Ely http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-10614 Ely Mon, 06 Sep 2010 03:43:59 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-10614 Sister, when I read your story, I realized we are not alone. I'm experiencing now the same situation. I met a christian boy,started a relationship, we made plans, I asked him to take a break to pray and then he told me he though it would be better to be friends for a while. One week later he met a girl in my church and they became gf/bf, and became her fiancée. He did for her what he didn't do for me and broke my heart telling me lies. That happened 4 months ago and I have to see them twice a week in my church, in the meetings, and now I see all the dreams we planned, happening with the other girl. It's a hell. I know what you are feeling. It's a nightmare that devastates you in all ways physically, emotionally, spiritually. Put out all your pain, and please work in the acceptance of letting him go. If he doesn't fight for you, he is not the person for you because love doesn't give up. It has been a hell for me, so I know where you are. Submit to the Lord,and accept is over and take your time to heal. The Lord loves you, your ex-bf doesn't. Cry, cry all the tears you need to cry and accept the fact that he wont be back. As soon as you accept it, you'll heal more and more. Pray, rest in the Lord. I recommend you also one book: “Forgiving the Unforgivable”, author Beverly Flaningan. I'm reading this and it helps you to release wounds and expectations and move on. But stay with the Lord and remember you are not alone... Sister,
when I read your story, I realized we are not alone.

I’m experiencing now the same situation. I met a christian boy,started a relationship, we made plans, I asked him to take a break to pray and then he told me he though it would be better to be friends for a while. One week later he met a girl in my church and they became gf/bf, and became her fiancée. He did for her what he didn’t do for me and broke my heart telling me lies. That happened 4 months ago and I have to see them twice a week in my church, in the meetings, and now I see all the dreams we planned, happening with the other girl. It’s a hell.

I know what you are feeling. It’s a nightmare that devastates you in all ways physically, emotionally, spiritually. Put out all your pain, and please work in the acceptance of letting him go. If he doesn’t fight for you, he is not the person for you because love doesn’t give up.

It has been a hell for me, so I know where you are. Submit to the Lord,and accept is over and take your time to heal. The Lord loves you, your ex-bf doesn’t. Cry, cry all the tears you need to cry and accept the fact that he wont be back. As soon as you accept it, you’ll heal more and more. Pray, rest in the Lord.

I recommend you also one book: “Forgiving the Unforgivable”, author Beverly Flaningan. I’m reading this and it helps you to release wounds and expectations and move on. But stay with the Lord and remember you are not alone…

]]> By: Roy Mattingly http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-10565 Roy Mattingly Mon, 09 Aug 2010 09:04:20 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-10565 Pain, a reality of life, a warning sign, and when physical the healing normally begins after the care of doctoring the wounds. They say cuts heal in a matter of time around ten days with a healthy person, but there are scars remaining as remembrances. Many wish the emotional could be so simple, but with most they aren’t. The scars aren’t visible and resurface at inopportune moments by familiar places, things, and even people or similar events can bring heartrending memories to cognizance. She came to my heart as a beautiful voice singing in a group gathered singing praises to God, and I just knew we must meet, and four seven long tortuous, agonizing years I waited, and waited all to no avail. There were many moments though, when I really believed it was about to happen, only I suppose fate or whatever occurs in life to turn it into something not mentally wanted or envisioned, but it never happen. I never even had an opportunity to hold her hand or whisper my feelings into her lovely ear as she leaned on my shoulder. The hurt I felt when I heard her speaking of getting married to another man, and I turned to leave, and she said, “See you later,” only it has never happen, and never will as desired, since she loves another! The lasting ache remains, because she said good-bye, before she ever said, hello…. Roy Pain, a reality of life, a warning sign, and when physical the healing normally begins after the care of doctoring the wounds. They say cuts heal in a matter of time around ten days with a healthy person, but there are scars remaining as remembrances. Many wish the emotional could be so simple, but with most they aren’t. The scars aren’t visible and resurface at inopportune moments by familiar places, things, and even people or similar events can bring heartrending memories to cognizance.
She came to my heart as a beautiful voice singing in a group gathered singing praises to God, and I just knew we must meet, and four seven long tortuous, agonizing years I waited, and waited all to no avail. There were many moments though, when I really believed it was about to happen, only I suppose fate or whatever occurs in life to turn it into something not mentally wanted or envisioned, but it never happen. I never even had an opportunity to hold her hand or whisper my feelings into her lovely ear as she leaned on my shoulder. The hurt I felt when I heard her speaking of getting married to another man, and I turned to leave, and she said, “See you later,” only it has never happen, and never will as desired, since she loves another! The lasting ache remains, because she said good-bye, before she ever said, hello….
Roy

]]> By: Perla http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-10474 Perla Tue, 06 Jul 2010 19:22:19 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-10474 I'd like to encourage you. God knows your pain and He loves you so much. Please know that God has a wonderful plan for your life. He has a beautiful life story for you, allow Him to script your life story and your love story. He can give you more than you can imagine. I’d like to encourage you. God knows your pain and He loves you so much. Please know that God has a wonderful plan for your life.

He has a beautiful life story for you, allow Him to script your life story and your love story. He can give you more than you can imagine.

]]> By: sarah hayes http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-10350 sarah hayes Thu, 29 Apr 2010 09:28:18 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-10350 SOMETIMES WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO GET OVER SOMEONE YOU NEED TO CHANGE SOME THINGS LIKE PEOPLE,PLACES, AND THINGS WHY PUT YOURSELF THROUGH UNNESCESSARY PAIN WHEN YOU DON,T HAVE TOO???? CHANGE YOUR SURROUNDINGS IM NOT SAYING TO LEAVE YOUR CHURCH BUT YOU MIGHT HAVE TO JUST FOR AWHILE JUST TO GET OVER HIM IF YOU CHOOSE TO STAY YOU MIGHT HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE FACT THAT HE MIGHT DATE SOMEONE AT YOUR CHURCH AND BABY THATS TORTURE!!! YOU DESERVE SOMEONE WHO,S GONNA LOVE YOU BACK!!!! DON,T YOU THINK YOU,RE WORTH BEING LOVED THE WAY YOU GIVE LOVE???? SOMETIMES WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO GET OVER SOMEONE YOU NEED TO CHANGE SOME THINGS LIKE PEOPLE,PLACES, AND THINGS WHY PUT YOURSELF THROUGH UNNESCESSARY PAIN WHEN YOU DON,T HAVE TOO???? CHANGE YOUR SURROUNDINGS IM NOT SAYING TO LEAVE YOUR CHURCH BUT YOU MIGHT HAVE TO JUST FOR AWHILE JUST TO GET OVER HIM IF YOU CHOOSE TO STAY YOU MIGHT HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE FACT THAT HE MIGHT DATE SOMEONE AT YOUR CHURCH AND BABY THATS TORTURE!!! YOU DESERVE SOMEONE WHO,S GONNA LOVE YOU BACK!!!! DON,T YOU THINK YOU,RE WORTH BEING LOVED THE WAY YOU GIVE LOVE????

]]> By: afua http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-10166 afua Sun, 31 Jan 2010 18:10:50 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-10166 I understand how you feel, i was in a relationship for 3 years that i don't bellieve God had ordained at the time. It didn't work out for whatever reason, and he married someone else..I was hurt, but I broke it off and was giving him my heart and NEVeR even asked GOD about it. Be careful not to idolize this person, marriage is the purpose for relationships and if he is not focused on you, you don't need him.God is the creator of marriage, He will lead your husband to you. pray. You want someone who loves you and will treat you right.The way Jesus wants you to be treated. Marriage, sex and children are wonderful gifts but not everything in life. Don't let the enemy trick you, sometimes it's just when you can't have something that you want it. But when you get it, it's not all that. Be balanced, get a hobby and cultivate interests on YOUR OWN, and you'll feel the feelings fall off. If you aren't married to someone, those passionate feelings you have should not be awoke. Remember God gave you those feellings to be in a COMMITTED marriage relationship with someone who won't break your heart and you can have children. Try to remember God sees your heart, but give Him your heart ALONE, until HE tells you to give it to someone worthy. I will pray for you. I understand how you feel, i was in a relationship for 3 years that i don’t bellieve God had ordained at the time. It didn’t work out for whatever reason, and he married someone else..I was hurt, but I broke it off and was giving him my heart and NEVeR even asked GOD about it. Be careful not to idolize this person, marriage is the purpose for relationships and if he is not focused on you, you don’t need him.God is the creator of marriage, He will lead your husband to you. pray. You want someone who loves you and will treat you right.The way Jesus wants you to be treated. Marriage, sex and children are wonderful gifts but not everything in life. Don’t let the enemy trick you, sometimes it’s just when you can’t have something that you want it. But when you get it, it’s not all that. Be balanced, get a hobby and cultivate interests on YOUR OWN, and you’ll feel the feelings fall off. If you aren’t married to someone, those passionate feelings you have should not be awoke. Remember God gave you those feellings to be in a COMMITTED marriage relationship with someone who won’t break your heart and you can have children. Try to remember God sees your heart, but give Him your heart ALONE, until HE tells you to give it to someone worthy. I will pray for you.

]]> By: HP http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-10090 HP Wed, 09 Dec 2009 10:39:12 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-10090 dear heart break. i've been there. i know what you're going through. i dated a guy for 7 years.he cheated on me and got married to the same lady 2 years after our relationship. to top it all-they got married on the date that we started dating! i though that there was no life without him, 'cause he was my world.my job second and God 3rd.in the same year i lost both my boyfriend and my job. now that God is 1st in my life-i could not have asked for a better life! you will get over him. pray for him and pray the prayer of jabez over your life. god will never leave you and He is a healer,friend,companion,etc. everything that your ex meant to you God is all of that and more. Trust HIM! dear heart break.
i’ve been there. i know what you’re going through. i dated a guy for 7 years.he cheated on me and got married to the same lady 2 years after our relationship. to top it all-they got married on the date that we started dating! i though that there was no life without him, ’cause he was my world.my job second and God 3rd.in the same year i lost both my boyfriend and my job. now that God is 1st in my life-i could not have asked for a better life! you will get over him. pray for him and pray the prayer of jabez over your life. god will never leave you and He is a healer,friend,companion,etc. everything that your ex meant to you God is all of that and more. Trust HIM!

]]> By: Cathy http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-9975 Cathy Thu, 08 Oct 2009 15:13:59 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-9975 Oh my dear sister in Christ I feel your pain. I carry the burden with you and I understand. I, too, dated a younger man and the pain of the break is impossible. But you have to remember that God promises to be close to the broken hearted. You are doing the right thing, you are grieving and trying to move on. God will dry your tears, I know He will, you just have to hang on to Him and joy comes in the morning. Hold on to Him with everything you are, read scripture, talk to friends, and cry. One day, my friend, your tears will stop, I promise. If you need a friend, or someone to pray with, please don't hesitate to email me: cvirecci@gmail.com. God has plans to prosper you! Remember this:) He is a GOOD God and will not let you go! You are not alone in this walk, He will carry you to the other side of the pain. Trust Him. Bless you, my prayers are for you!!!! Oh my dear sister in Christ I feel your pain. I carry the burden with you and I understand. I, too, dated a younger man and the pain of the break is impossible. But you have to remember that God promises to be close to the broken hearted. You are doing the right thing, you are grieving and trying to move on. God will dry your tears, I know He will, you just have to hang on to Him and joy comes in the morning. Hold on to Him with everything you are, read scripture, talk to friends, and cry. One day, my friend, your tears will stop, I promise.

If you need a friend, or someone to pray with, please don’t hesitate to email me: cvirecci@gmail.com. God has plans to prosper you! Remember this:) He is a GOOD God and will not let you go! You are not alone in this walk, He will carry you to the other side of the pain. Trust Him. Bless you, my prayers are for you!!!!

]]> By: Christopher Johnson http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-9910 Christopher Johnson Wed, 26 Aug 2009 05:17:40 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-9910 well all i can say is im 18 starting college and had my first girlfriend, and i had to breadk up with her not even a month ago. I just cryed my eyes out asking God to help me. This is a long story of what ive now seen as manpulation and taking the truth and turning into lies. I knw God has so much for me but i cnt get mad at her. She almost tore me from my family, church and friends. And didnt care, well thats not what she said but did. I wnt the pain to leave but the memories and the love is still there. Why? can anyone help me? Am i the bad one? ive never known a boy my age to be this way after a break up, i dont knw i cnt find much about this kinda stuff on the web its mostly about how the guy trashed the girls heart and left..but thats not me...im not that way...can someone help me? well all i can say is im 18 starting college and had my first girlfriend, and i had to breadk up with her not even a month ago. I just cryed my eyes out asking God to help me. This is a long story of what ive now seen as manpulation and taking the truth and turning into lies. I knw God has so much for me but i cnt get mad at her. She almost tore me from my family, church and friends. And didnt care, well thats not what she said but did. I wnt the pain to leave but the memories and the love is still there. Why? can anyone help me? Am i the bad one? ive never known a boy my age to be this way after a break up, i dont knw i cnt find much about this kinda stuff on the web its mostly about how the guy trashed the girls heart and left..but thats not me…im not that way…can someone help me?

]]> By: jenny allio http://www.testimonyshare.com/heart-break/comment-page-1/#comment-9789 jenny allio Sun, 14 Jun 2009 05:51:54 +0000 http://www.testimonyshare.com/?p=565#comment-9789 This loss of love is a wonderful test and opportunity for you to have that much love and so much more for Christ that you will get to the point that you will be so glad that relationship did not continue because it was a distraction to what Jesus wants us all to have in Him. Dive more and more into His word.Spend more and more time with the Lord.He is the one you will spend eternity with!!! This loss of love is a wonderful test and opportunity for you to have that much love and so much more for Christ that you will get to the point that you will be so glad that relationship did not continue because it was a distraction to what Jesus wants us all to have in Him. Dive more and more into His word.Spend more and more time with the Lord.He is the one you will spend eternity with!!!

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